Dating don dos ts
Don’t misinterpret your behaviors for your character.
Behaviors can either reflect you positively or negatively, and what I am seeing is that we are getting attached to our negative behaviors and calling them “who we are.” Overwhelming a person with “who you are” on a first date, stops you from getting to know them, which defeats the purpose doesn’t it?
” and “You’re gorgeous, I’d love to chat.” If you want to get her attention, try doing something a bit more personal.
One girl we spoke to told a story about a guy who sent her a hilarious quote from the movie she had mentioned in her profile.
Again, use your convo as a way to get to know each other, but remember, don’t talk about yourself in excess! We know dates can be uncomfortable at first, or for some, uncomfortable the whole time, but keep in mind, this feeling is temporary.The scenario: “One time I was messaging back and forth with a guy for two weeks and having a great conversation, but he was taking too long to ask me out, so I stopped talking to him.” — Kelly, 32The problem..the solution: If you’re into her, ask her out! And if you’re not, why are you still talking to her? When she’s ready to make her exit from the online dating world, she’ll let you know. ” The scenario: “I can’t stand when I get a message that says ‘any fun weekend plans? ” — Laura, 27The problem..the solution: Sending a generic message—especially one as uninteresting as this—is not what’s going to make you stand out from other guys.Or if you feel compelled to bring it up, say something like, “I’m not interested in meeting anyone else online. Trust us, she’s getting a boatload of uninspiring messages like “Hi, how are you? Well, I have compiled a list of Do’s and Don’ts just for you because I’ve been seeing some my beautiful ladies committing some dating crimes.
I understand it can be nerve wracking getting to know a potential spouse but instead of handling our nerves with , we are letting our mouths run with the wind! I must also say that while coaching some of my ladies about WHY their dates didn’t go so well, the number one thing I get told (in some way) is… I am who I am.” If you’re one of my ladies that has said this… No one is trying to change who you really are beside you.
Pick something specific she wrote about herself, and ask her a follow-up about it.